their lived a happy family. A mom, a dad and their four very happy children. One day the dad decided that what was important to him had very little to do with what was important to a family. Mom and dad went their separate ways. Mom got everything in the divorce. The four kids, the dogs and all the bills.
Today I chose to be angry.
My ex-husband does not call. He does not pay child support. When we divorced, he might as well have just died.
Today I chose not to feel sorry for myself and instead count my blessings.
1) My children are happy and alive.
2) My parents are alive.
3) My siblings are alive
4) I am buying the house I live in.
5) I have paid all the bills for this month.
6) I live in an area with a good school district.
7) I have reasonably inexpensive health insurance for my kids.
8) I have a job
9) We will not go hungry.
10)My car gets me back and forth to work and anyplace else I want to go.
11)My little girl likes her smile.
12)My kids like each other and choose to be with each other.
13)My family all live within driving distance.
14)I work eight miles from where I live.
15)I found this forum.
16)This can go on and on....
Today I chose to be happy.
""What we do in life echoes in eternity-Maximus"
Once upon a time...
February 22nd, 2007 at 05:02 am
February 22nd, 2007 at 02:09 pm 1172153388
February 22nd, 2007 at 03:17 pm 1172157439
I also recommend that you pursue legal actions to get him to start paying.
Take care!
February 22nd, 2007 at 06:04 pm 1172167449
February 23rd, 2007 at 12:10 am 1172189408
The girls didn't have as difficult a time, but it was hard for them too.
I also got the house, and the mortgage, but was able to pay it off early, thanks to a good job. We always dressed well, thanks to Goodwill, and tag sales. Unfortunately, we didn't have any family within 1000 miles, and that would have been so helpful for the kids.
You are very fortunate to have family nearby. Make sure your kids see extended family often, and keep them central to your lives. It will make a huge difference. Kids need to see families that love each other and stay together, so they have positive role models. Grandfathers and uncles will be important to the boys as well as girls. Girls will gravitate to men like their fathers if that is all they know. Boys need to spend time with positive males.
You will be fine, with your positive attitude, and extended family in your lives. Good luck. It sounds like you have a great family.
March 11th, 2007 at 01:57 am 1173578236